So a few weeks ago you might remember that I was second shooter at Ana Lisa and Kelly’s wedding. It was an amazing event and I grabbed some beautiful shots but despite all the grandeur of that evening, there was one guest that really stood out to me. I don’t know the guy’s name and we never actually spoke but surprisingly he had a HUGE affect on me. As you can see from these pictures he is literally the only one dancing in a crowd of people. Some might call him crazy, confident or “different”, whatever “it” is I can totally relate! That’s because exactly six months ago today I left corporate America to pursue my dream of photography – the single SCARIEST moment of my life.
For people that have known me the longest the news was beyond random. I had only taken one photography class (junior year in college) and I had never even owned a camera until late 2007. Explaining this to my parents was tough… I was leaving a great career in Pharmaceutical sales, a company car and free gas?! During a recession?! [Wow, that does actually sound crazy when I type it out, lol] Here was my problem: I was living the “American Dream” but I wasn’t living MY dreams. There’s a huge difference.
Fast-forward 6 months later and after many sleepless nights, tons of practice and the continued support of my friends I am actually a lot happier. Granted, I still miss that company car and steady paycheck but nothing compares to the feeling I get when a client REALLY loves their pictures. As a photographer my goal is to capture all your joy, your kindness – the REAL essence of you in one moment. If I can do that then I am really living my dream.
And as you’re reading this there is still a recession going on and people may think you’re crazy for pursuing your passion but I suggest doing what this guy did – keep dancing, and they can either laugh or join in with you.
good luck.
*Before I forget!!! I couldn’t have done this shoot without the help of my creative director/homie Apuje Kalu… thanks man!
